It seems like whenever it's brought up there's also someone saying it's toxic or gross or weird to want to sleep with a virgin their first time. Meanwhile average people who now have high bodycounts most likely had their first time with a virgin when they were in high school or their early 20s and a virgin themselves. Why is it unacceptable for a man who didn't lose his virginity in high school or college to have the preference to lose it to a virgin? Obviously if you love someone you can maybe overlook their past depending on how many people they've slept with. I mean is it really fair to expect a man who hasn't had any sexual partners to stay with a woman who has had dozens? If a woman has this preference for her future husband do you think people would be saying the same things? That it's gross or outdated? Just curious.

I can understand if a man has a high bodycount and then expects his wife to be a virgin, that's quite hypocritical but if a man has not had sex, especially if he's saving himself, why is it frowned upon to have any standards whatsoever about someone who he may marry in the future? Hell, even if he doesn't marry the first woman he slept with its still a special moment. It's the same reason why male virgins sleeping with prostitutes don't really feel good about it, because it's empty. Same as a man sleeping with a woman who has a high count, there's little to no emotional connection and chances are it won't last, so why is it bad to have this preference?