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I went to a party on Sunday.... I didn't know anyone there except two friends, I spent most of my time there chatting with one of my friends but I overheard these two guys roasting each other hard, they seem to be good friends so it was in good spirits but hearing one of the guys say what I wrote in the title to mock his friend who lost to him many times in bowling and tennis really struck me! It was intended as a joke and not even directed at me but it resonated with me..... am I really trapped in my genetic limitations?
Now I'm not entirely sure how limited my options are in attaining sexual fulfilment due to my (likely) genetically determined traits but at age 29 and still a virgin, I know it's far from the best. That said, hearing jokes about someone being genetically inferior just drives up my anxiety because it could be very true in my case, I hope it's not but it could be.
Is anyone here worried that they can't lose their virginity due to genetic determinism?
Not much to add here, just this: You're not a bad person for worrying about this.
You're not just looking for excuses.
You're not just trying to figure out how to justify a bad character.
Society and by extension reddit loves to tear down disadvantaged peoples when it comes to socially fitting in so please. Never take that to heart. You're an acceptable target. Don't let it get to you.
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