Now to start off: obviously sex is a normal part of the vast majority of relationships I imagine. But I talk to others on reddit or just friends in general about sex and almost have a hard time swallowing it. Like it feels insane that sex can be so normal for others!

I think this also truthfully comes from a place of fear with a bit of insecurity mixed in. I’m a 26 year old guy who hasn’t done anything remotely sexual irl. The idea of going out and having sex with literally anyone is exciting but really scary at the same time due to the pressure and my lack of experience. I do a lot of sexual stuff online and part of me wonders whether doing so much stuff online almost makes real sex unfathomable or unattainable. But I’m curious what others think!

Recently I had an experience where it just felt so hard to grasp what a girl was telling me about her sexual experience. It almost felt like my head was spinning trying to comprehend how this regular sex she was describing was just that: regular.

I know I’m sort of repeating myself so I’ll stop there. But I’m very curious to hear other people’s experiences with this stuff. Whether it causes anyone to be nervous but excited in the same way it does for me. So just let me know your experience!