Obviously as a 28m khhv, ive never been on a date. Ive been researching female dating strategies and dating advice on various platforms. Anyways, ive discovered girls are encouraged to date multiple people at once until they find someone long term because everyone else is doing it. I feel like if you are after a monogamous relationship, you should be dating exclusively from the start. Like all your time and effort should be used to get to know your date and to create something not displaced between multiple dates.

Secondly, it seems to be normalized that its better to hurt them (whoever you are dating aka monkey branching) rather than to be hurt by them. Idk but i dont have much hope left in finding someone that will love me so if i get played id probably just give up completely. Id probably hate everyone around me and will never trust anyone again. Being inexperienced, i think i will most likely get played 😔 like some people are really good liars that i dont think i will pick up on. Idk please tell me im delusional.