28 year old Irish guy here. Still a complete virgin, and have never even kissed a girl.

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Fun story; I actually went on a date about a year ago - although I didn't know it was a date. The girl was stupidly beautiful and completely out of my league so I wasn't expecting anything. Long story short, we were sitting beside each other and she started to kiss my neck. This has never happened to me before, and it was completely unexpected so my entire body just froze up and I had no idea what to do or say and I completely blew it. I'm pretty sure that moment will haunt me for the rest of my life.

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So, why am I a virgin? I think it's a mixture of extreme shyness, anxiety and complete embarrassment. I've matched with some incredibly beautiful girls on dating apps, but I've always been too scared to make a move. My mind tells me that they're completely out of my league and they deserve better, even if they're showing interest in me. I've never done anything with a girl so I'm guaranteed to screw it up, and the idea of telling them I'm a virgin is absolutely terrifying. I feel like I'll be judged so much being a 28 year old virgin. I have no idea how to kiss a girl, so if a girl tries to kiss me they'll probably be like "what the fuck is this guy doing" and that idea is terrifying.

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As time goes on, the fact that I'm a virgin just becomes even more embarrassing and makes it even harder to try and take the steps to finally lose my virginity. I feel like it's just a dark hole that I'm falling down, getting further and further from possible escape.