A lot of guys and certain internet ideologies seem to tell guys to make a lot of money and progress in their career for money so that women will be attracted to them for their money/status.

Personally I hate this outlook as the women you'll be attracting, don't want you, they want your resources. It won't be genuine and they'll be more likely to cheat on you with someone they actually desire.

In the ideal world, we attract people with our personality, but looks play a much larger factor. Imo looks are a lot more genuine way to attract women as they desire YOU and not your resources.

Anyone else feel the same? I see so many delusional guys buying into the idea using money to attract when it will only hurt them in the long-term. I think looks are a lot more genuine and that you be doing everything you can to improve your looks.