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to the girls who get called "exotic", how does it make you feel?
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ill delete if its irrelevant to the page but im just curious. ill get called exotic looking and when i was younger i liked it because it made me feel different. but as i got older i started to hate it; everytime a guy said it to me it felt like they were "othering" or fetishizing me. now when people call me exotic i immediately assume they dont see me as a person anymore. obviously a lot of that is my own assumptions now, but do you guys have a different experience when you get told this?

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It feels weird. Exotic I guess can be subjective. But I don’t really pay much attention to it. But yes, to me it has a slightly negative connotation

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