I know this isn't the type of ad most people are posting in this subreddit, but... I don't think there's another local sub that's more applicable?

I'm poly, I have a nesting partner, and I want to have some fun that's maybe casual-ish, but ideally is recurring longterm because... who wants to actually keep trying to meet new people in perpetuity? I hear it's a shit-show out there.

I have messy hair, questionable fashion taste, & am sometimes socially awkward. I enjoy nature but I'm also a couch potato with the body to show for it, so if you're looking for one of those Type A gym/hiking afficionado Vermonters, I'm not that. Nevertheless, some people tell me I'm charming and/or stunning, YMMV. I like going to shows (punk & metal are usually the most fun). I have the usual array of crafty hobbies, and the ADHD to ensure I never fully commit to any of them. I might be a bit of a pillow princess and/or a brat (but without ageplay).

You are in Chittenden county (or you travel there often). You're probably a bit of a weirdo, and maybe a Dom, and hopefully you have a way with words (to make up for me sometimes being too quiet). You can host or cover hotel (I can't do either, my house is full and I'm broke). You know better than to use "Hi" or a dick pic as your opener in DMs. Stuff you could open with instead: Some of your basic stats, a bit of life history or interests etc, your politics, your strengths & flaws... If you claim the label of Dom please describe what that terminology means to you.