Hello there and thanks for reading my post! I am a 39 year old male in the Burlington area who is looking for a girl that isn't seeking something too serious, or too casual either, something kinda in the middle.

I am a married guy, to be up front about all that - and I'm looking for someone to help enhance my life. I have posted on here before and tried to give up, about like 10 times, but the needs arise and I do think I really need a nice lover in my life. I am sorry if this upsets or offends some of you, but know that it is with a heavy heart that I have to do this, for my sanity. I realize this can rub people the wrong way, but please it's hard enough to try and find what i'm looking for, I don't also need, or warrant the extra negative comments.

I want to be able to spend quality time with this person, so I hope you are down for that, when we can. I know it might be a little tricky, but I honestly think I can make you a very happy person, and so I do indeed think I'm worth it.

Me: a big on the bigger side size wise but I hold it together really well or so i'm told. I'm 6'3 and 280, so that should give you a rough estimate of what I look like. Professional in the boston area, so I'm not going to post pics up front but once I feel a little comfortable I will send you them no problem and we can see if we click looks-wise and go from there.

I don't want to waste any persons time so I am pretty upfront about who I am and what I am looking for - and I hope that you can be as well. I have had some really good conversations with people on here that haven't really translated into meeting for a variety of reasons and that is okay! I'm happy with what I've had so far, but I am looking to take it to the next level.

Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope that some of you enjoy the post and will message me in hopes of finding a nice down to earth guy albeit with some baggage. <3 and ta ta for now.