I’m at a crossroads in my life. I’ve explored all sorts of different industries and gained plenty of different skills doing so whether it be working in cannabis, construction, therapeutic industry etc. I just haven’t landed a career just yet and I’ve been looking for about a year now. I currently work and have two side gigs so it’s not like I sit on my ass doing nothing. We got into a fight over a week ago and it got pretty nasty on both our parts and ended with her saying I haven’t done anything with my life and I amount to nothing. She went to 4yrs of college and is an RN. It really cut me deep as it’s something im sensitive about not having a direction per-say or making a bunch of money with I guess equates to worth these days. I tried to smooth things over after the fight but she said she will just continue to resent me for not having a career and making enough money for her to eventually go to part time when we have kids. Apparently people have validated her and said she’s justified to feel this way.