My (28m) life has been in shambles over a year now and things are just getting worse. My long term relationship is in the rocks because my (28f) gf developed a pretty scary alcohol problem. Ive tried to help her, get her therapy, etc. But no matter what she turns back to drinking. Its becoming too much for me to handle and as close as I was to leaving, now i feel stuck. About 6 months ago i was laid off from my job. Even though they laid me off, they continue to fight me on unemployment, and no matter how hard i try i cant find anyone that is actually hiring. My gf does make decent money, and for the first time in over 2 years she has actually been kind and understanding, flashes of her old self. But she still drinks, ive run out of savings and am going deep into credit card debt, she is being kind enough to fiscally take care of me, but still destroying me emotionally every day. I feel like an ass, a moocher, and all day every day is just what ifs, regret, etc. And now i feel even if im unhappy im just a selfish shitty person, just because she is willing to hwlp me through rhis difficult time