Basically what the title says. We're struggling so much with the bills and truck payments right now. Im (F 19) a stay-at-home (new)wife, which is making it a little easier for the other adults (i watch/babysit my brothers-in-law), but i want to help make money for the house too. The struggle has gotten to the point we dont even have the money to feed our dogs dog food (which one is extremely sick and had just started eating again) and our cat. Its driving me to thinking about selling pictures of myself online or asking my husband for his permission to search for a sugar daddy just to help with stuff like that and help my MIL with gas when she needs it. Its to the point me, my husband, and my MIL all broke down in one day because of how much all this is hitting us.

I want to clarify that we aren't struggling with food, we do get food stamps. Its everything else.

At home, the boys keep destroying stuff so we keep having to replace/fix it and im struggling to keep my sanity because they dont know how to behave. Every day they manage to get the house dirtier than the day before. They don't even follow any of the rules that were made since before we moved to this nice place. They don't even listen or pay attention when someone is talking to them. The oldest eats almost everything, to the point that when we WERE struggling with food he was literally starving everyone, even his younger brother. The youngest always screams when he isnt in any danger, and he's going to turn out to be the boy who cried wolf. They aren't in school yet and the youngest knows more that the oldest. And i keep asking them to stop running around with our dog inside because she isn't fully house-trained yet and they still do, which is showing her that its okay to rough-play inside, and the oldest literally traumatized the now-sick dog when he was a puppy, so now he doesn't like the kids and snaps at them randomly. Its lead me to believe we probably should have only gotten one dog and only the adults should have been around them when they were puppies. Yet the responsibility of the boys and dogs were put on me by default.

My husband is working his butt off at a fast food place and gets ssi checks, and his work is doing him dirty by falsely writing him up for something that wasn't even his fault, and his GM knows this and thinks he shouldn't have. And my MIL is stressed because she feels like a mistress by her bf (who is in the middle of a divorce) and feels like she should take everyone's problems and try to fix them because she's strong, but she hasn't had a lot of time alone with her kids. And we could get the truck taken any second because we're so behind on payments.

I want to help but I don't know how, I'm trying to look up any way I can make money from home so I don't have to go out and waste MIL's gas or so i dont have to sell pics online or get a sugar daddy. I've had no luck with finding jobs i can do from my laptop AND have no diploma.

TL;DR, Were struggling with money and our mental healths and i just want to help.