Another exciting installment of trying to find a Dom!

I’m looking for a Dom for an eventual long term thing. Ideally, we would start short term, and if we click we can go from there. Friends first seems like the best way to go about this.

I have a hefty about me section on my profile, I'm not one for sharing pictures publicly on Reddit, but if you ask I can send a few. I also have a list of ideals, but it's not a "all has to fit into one" list.

I also will not reply to ‘no substance’ messages. I don’t care that your dick is hard and you’re horny right now, I’m not looking for a quick fuck. I have a fucking machine for that. I want to see your personality. I want to get to know you, then if we click we can dive into sex. And please, no dick picks out the gate, I don’t care how impressive you think it is.

I’ve had a few run ins with some great Doms, but one thing or another gets in the way and things keep falling through for me. I’ll be honest that I haven’t found this to be an easy thing to find, not for lack of looking. I figure at this point, I might as well cast my own net instead of looking for one to fall into myself.

While I have had many interactions and encounters with doms, I haven’t been able to find someone I was able to build a level of trust with to engage in the things I’ve always wanted to try, like 24/7, free use, something similar to TPE. I like the idea of those things, but I don’t want to do them with someone I don’t trust fully, or who doesn’t know what they’re doing. There are a lot of people out there who rely on the word ‘Dom’ without carrying the weight of the title.

As far as things I have done and I know I like, the list includes, but is not limited to; overstimulation, gags, fucking machines, light bondage, sensory deprivation, choking, orgasm torture, orgasm control, e-stim, some pain, clips/clamps, praise, degradation, anal, collars, honorifics, objectification- there are more but the list is long.

If you've messaged me in the past, don't be afraid to hit me up again, I'm still looking. I have a tendency to lose track of messages. Also, if you message me and I don’t reply quickly, please understand that I have a relatively chaotic life and sometimes it might take me a day to reply.

And if you made it this far, honestly gold star for you.