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Hi there!
My name is James, Iām 25 years old and Iām from the Netherlands. Iām gay and non-monogamous so queer ENM (and childfree) men who share my values are what Iām in the market for when it comes to connections that go beyond platonic friendships.
My day job is production work, but Iām also a tattoo apprentice so Iām working towards becoming a tattoo artist and want to do that full time. I also write - I have two books published but I spend most of my writing time on Harry Potter (Marauderās era) fan fiction. Big nerd, yes. (JKR can kiss my ass though, of course.)
On that note, ethics are very important to me. Iām nearing a decade of veganism and I volunteer for two vegan activist organizations, one of which I organize events for and for the other I also organize events, but am also spokesperson and in charge of social media management. Other philosophies I strongly believe in are antinatalism and antireligionism.
I like to sing (and am practicing harsh vocals), I love music. My favorite bands currently are Ghost, Cattle Decapitation and Batushka.
Iām neurodivergent - I have ADHD and ASD and a huge, huge preference for other NDās. I also choose to live fully sober. I use ADHD meds because I need those to function, but Iāve been strictly off recreational drugs (including alcohol) for 8 years and intend to keep it that way.
My taste in men when it comes to looksā¦ āSkinny pale guys with sunken eyesā, is how a former friend used to describe it, lol. Itās fairly accurate. Alternative boys have my heart. Long hair, tattoos and piercingsā¦ Beautiful.
Feel free to shoot me a message if this post piques your interest, also if youāre not looking to date me but want to connect platonically. Iām always open to meeting likeminded people. š«¶š»
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