You DO NOT have my consent to say anything sexual to me, unless I explicitly say you do.

Now let's shock the vegan community :)

__Introduction__

Olá! I am Juliana. I am from Brazil but I live in the metropolitan region of Lisbon. I am looking for a sweet sub, who is always respectul and classy. If you are looking for a female led relationship as I am, check out what I am looking for in details. Also check my whole profile on Fetlife (Volutopia). Take the full test on bdsmtest.org. If the results for "switch" are higher than 10%, please do not message me. I do not get along with switches, their rude side always seems to come out eventually.

__About me__

I am a progressive, a feminist, an anti-capitalist nerd who loves being at home watching movies (but who *does not* like Star Wars, Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings haha), videos and series. I am currently watching Our Flag Means Death and it is a fun show! I have recently started to watch Rick and Morty because, you know, it was not on there in Mars where I have been since the show was first aired hahaI love reading, playing videogames, doing jigsaw puzzles, listening to audiobooks/podcasts, stories, rock/metal (some of the bands I like are: She Wants Revenge, After Forever, HIM, Volbeat, Diablo Swing Orchestra, Skindred etc. Here goes one of my favorite songs of 2023: https://youtu.be/ImLwCP5Pfuo?si=0scdgi7JtJ4d7r9R. It is one hell of a feminist and powerful song! I love going to concerts, meeting up with friends to play boardgames (mostly party games), watching stand-up comedy, dancing (retro music and bellydance),and being in nature/in the water and swimming. I am interested in sustainability, healthy eating and healthy lifestyle in general. My favorite food is pamonha, second favorite is Green Thai Curry.

I am very bossy and I like to tell things like it is, so, don't be a winny little bitch and have some thick skin. I have a gentle side and I am very romantic and loving but I slap balls for a laugh and I am very much into humiliation/SPH and fall for people who are sweet after I am mean to them and for people who can make me laugh and who say clever things.

I give a lot of attention and compliments to my sub. Don't expect praise for regular things or every single thing you do for me but know that I pay attention to everything and appreciate real efforts and dedication.None of these kinks can be among your limits, as they are big for me: foot worship, humiliation and CBT if that applies to your gender.I have a mommy fetish when I am dating people who are some years younger than me, but be mature, be stable and consistent. I am an empowered woman with a lot of experience, so I will not put up with BS :)

I am open for relocation.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/voloWfA. But now I have bangs :)

__What I am looking for__

I am mostly attracted to White and Asian people. Your cock size has to be at least 14 cm and if it is smaller than 18 cm you can expect some SPH, if we end up building a relationship. If there is no connection and long term goals, I have zero interest in humiliating you. Even though I have a size requirement, I do not want an agressive, arrogant guy, like guys with big dicks seem to often be.When it comes to men, I prefer them to be around 1,80m or taller. I am not really into chubby guys.I am looking for someone who also makes efforts to be a decent person. That includes, among other things, respecting the animals' lives, which means you have to be vegan or want to become vegan and this is a requirement.

If you need to have kids, I am not the right person for you.

he dream would be to live a kinky and loving life, where we grow some organic veggies and flowers together, have cozy moments watching horror movies under the blankets and, are honest at all times with each other and have open communication with one another. I would never lie to my partner and I am looking for someone who also would never lie to me. Lying is betraying and not acceptable on a D/s. I don't believe in words until you show me that your actions back up what you say. I know how common it is to lie and lying is against my principles, I want to find someone who takes honesty serious as I do and it is your job to show me that you are different and better than all the time wasters. I am a very open person and do not want to deal with immature people who are afraid of living. Do not message me if you are not ready to meet a Mistress in real life. If you try to keep the conversation on Reddit only, and don't want to talk on Whatsapp or Instagram, I will think you might have a girlfriend, you are not serious or, worse: that you might be dangerous. You have to make sure you give me a good feeling that I am spending my time getting to know with a goal be together in real life, and you have to make me feel safe to meet you. If you don't get personal or sound like someone who just wants to live a fantasy in your head, it is likely that I will block you.I care about physical and mental heatlh. I noticed that in the BDSM community there is a lot of mental health struggle and, if you have any mental issues (which you should informe me in your first message), only message me if you take care of your mind as in seeing a psychiatrist, psycologist, take medication, do whatever therapy that works for you.I am looking for something stable and you have to be stable too, so we can evolve together rather than me being your caregiver. One tip though, look up medicine that our Mother Earth has for our minds - psychedelics - But please keep in mind that if you abuse any drugs, including natural ones (even coffee), or you self medicate because you do not want to work on your mental issues, I cannot be your Domme. I do not want someone who is high often, nor anyone who smokes anything (marijuana included) or is addicted to nicotine, Xanax, alcohol or coffee (I don't drink these last two, or soda for that matter)... maybe you got the idea. Smoking anything is not something I allow my sub to do.

I know how to keep a place clean and organized, and I expect those qualities from you.An example of an ideal quality time with my sub would be to have him or her gently run their fingers on my back while we listen to some creepy story together. Another sweet thing I like to have with my sub, is that he puts lotion on my skin everyday, as a daily, cute, couple thing.

I am a horror fan and have endless reccomendations for people who like horror too haha You have to enjoy creepy stuff too as I listen and/or watch stuff like this everyday and like to do it with a partner when I am in a relationship. Respect is the basis of an FLR and you *always* have to express yourself with ultimate respect towards me, which means, besides kissing the floor I walk on (figuratevely and literally), being a feminist and a supporter of immigrants' rights and a world with no borders! I am looking for something serious that will, hopefully, last a lifetime. Something that will evolve to living together and adopting cats an perhaps a dog and rabbit too :)

Eventually, I am looking for something that will evolve to a female led marriage.

__How to contact me__

CLEAR FACE PICTURE OR A VIDEO OF YOU TALKING, ON YOUR FIRST MESSAGE, IS A REQUIREMENT.I don't answer lazy, generic messages or messages from people I don't know what they look like, so if after reading my ad, you decide to send me a message, make sure it is a well written message: Don't overuse slang or "lol" or use too much emojis. Use punctuation! Know the difference between "your and "you're". I love language and I find it sexy when someone is articulate and writes well.

Attraction is essential and I have to know if you are my type physically, before engaging in a conversation with you and, to be quite blunt, nothing substitutes a cute face for me. I block/ignore way more people than I answer and just because I have answered you, it does not mean you will not get blocked down the road if you disappoint me. If you talk to me without showing your face ON YOUR FIRST MESSAGE, you will not be respecting my limits since the very beginning and showing you cannot follow basic instructions, in this case, you have no use for me. If you do not want to show your face, I am not interested in knowing why you do not want to send a picture or video or how hot you think you are. If you hide your face, you should talk to women who also hide their face, not with me.

Don't dump your fetishes on me, as if you are hiring a service, and do not try to turn the conversation into a sex chat - it will just get you blocked.Before messaging me, read my post fully and, if you decide to message me, let me know why you think we could be a match in a relationship and what values and hobbies we share. Also include your height and weight in meters/kg.

It is your job to show me that you know that an FLR is what you want. Tell me what you have that I am looking for.Inform me on your fist message if you expect monogamy or not.It is important that, if you are not near me, you inform me that you are able to travel to me regularly and that you can travel soon for a first meeting, and tell me how we could possibly live together one day.I will expect relevant questions from a possible candidate and I will expect that we make plans for an immediate future and that we talk about our expectations and logistics of having a life together. I prefer if you contact me if you can meet up in real life in the next couple of months. Even if that means you refraining yourself from messaging me now and, instead, doing it later on in your life. I do not want to spend too much time only on the internet.

If I answer you and state that you are attractive, it is time for you to: 1- send me a quick video of you saying something(saying whatever, don't ask me what to say). Make sure to let me see the color of your eyes well on it. If I confirm that you are my type after seeing the video, 2 - take the full test on bdsmtest.org and send me the results. 3 - Also send me the answers to my Questionnaire that is on my profile on Fetlife. I will not engage in much conversation with you before you do these 3 things.

__What I have little to no interest__

For the cucks out there, don't come with the BBC, the hookups, the interracial or the bi male stuff: If I cuck someone it will be for my enjoyment, if you like what I like to do, great, but I will not be your object.The following fetishes are **super low** on my interests and could only be part of our D/s as rewards for hard (non sexual) work: bondage, chastity, fetishists clothes and high heels. My style is usually retro and/or formal/stylish. But I do prefer to feed the stray cats rather than buying a lot of clothes :)

DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE IF WE HAVE NO VALUES/HOBBIES IN COMMON and DO NOT send me your list of your sexual fantasies in your first message: this is just gross, coming from strangers on internet and it immediately shows that you have poor social/dating skills.

LIMITS: People who have a fetish of eating c*m, sissies and crossdressers.