I’m new to VDR but have seen lots on TikTok and whatnot - decided to start watching the seasons and poke my head in this sub from time to time.

Always thought people were a little harsh towards Scheana. She has a big personality for sure, but I didn’t find her malicious or too self-centered, at least not in the first two seasons.

Then the fight with Kristen at SUR happened after Kristen (who’s behaviour honestly FLOORS me) brought the Miami girl to confront Tom about their affair and I saw how Scheana made it about her - okay, I’m starting to see why people think Scheana inserts herself into the middle of everything… but didn’t think it was too alarming.

Then her wedding episode. THAT POOR POOR WEDDING COORDINATOR OH MY GOODNESS. There was nothing redeemable about Scheana’a behaviour. And Arianna was so supportive and comforting of Scheana. I would be embarrassed to be associated with her!

I get it now, guys. If she only gets worse, especially from this episode, I totally absolutely get it and I can barely stand to watch her 😩

My question is.. what is it about Scheana that people actually want to stay friends with someone so self-centered and volatile? Why do the boys put up with her? Why do the girls put up with her? Arianna especially who isnt equally supported the way she supports Scheana.