So sometimes I really just feel like doing something more spontaneous than talking to someone over text and feel like going out to a club or bar in hopes of meeting someone new.
But 1 I’ve never done that before, and in Vancouver it seems like everyone’s already with their group of friends and aren’t looking for a stranger to hookup with. Are there any bars that are known as places single people go, where walking up to someone and hitting on them would be more expected?
And 2 disclosing that I’m trans is just so much easier online. I just put it in my profile/ad. Irl, I don’t really care if people know I’m trans but I’m also not one to really advertise it either. It’s a little too awkward to introduce myself as “hi I’m John Doe and I have no dick.” But on the flip side, I’m worried that talking to someone for any length of time and -then- disclosing my trans status would upset them. I’m considering maybe getting a trans flag necklace or something. But then I’m still not sure what bars/clubs would even be good for me to go
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