Intro:

I'm a 36 yr old Single, Straight, Kinkster - moreover I'm a Primal Daddy or Daddy Dom - naturally internally driven Hedonistically, outwardly presenting in some Sadist play too but it's truly just innate D/s inclinations... Some of those carry out in carnal ANR, rougher sex, control, power exchange, tactile grabbing and physically intentional acts such as spanking, choking, restraining and so much more, I have FetLife too with specific kinks listed, writings, etc and as per my search, I'm not* here to find a dozen women to bang once in a while or for one kink scene, I'm seeking* a consistent woman to see regularly who I mesh well with, lots of alignment kinkwise, someone for longer term fun..

Overview:

I find labels are very limiting, that's why I like the Primal meaning of rejecting rules, traditions and protocols in order to self-define, albeit people get the wrong idea of what Primal truly is... it's not devolving or being animalistic to me, that is not my definition of it... to me it's more raw, unbridled, instinctual and I feel overlaps many things (I feel Primal encompasses D/s, rough, tactile, power exchange; forms natural dynamic stemming from energy, vibe, actions flowing freeform)... If we prescribe to the fet/kink based role terms and Kink terminology then I'm a mix of Primal Hedonist Dominant Kinkster Daddy Handler Sadist Sensualist Spanker. I enjoy a range, one singular definition is hard to apply, hard lined into one category is never exact

I believe everyone is kinky to some degree or another. I feel when two people meet it's all about finding mutually good sweet spot of 'likes' that turn rendezvous into something worthwhile. Connection is key. I keep my expectations low but do hope to find someone I vibe with for ongoing regular good sex. Ideally I want a quality sexual dynamic supplemented with some sort of friendship/affection beyond just in heat banging because it's more than just about a particular kink fulfillment through kinky sex once

Nothing beats that quality vibe/chemistry for hours on end behind closed doors to satiate our self in the moment and be left wanting more... then meeting for all that again; in person chemistry and social chemistry I find is necessary for this, can't just be solely kink based. For me, having a mutual interest in eachother and for play is key for it to last

Me:

Attractive if you like darker features and my look - shaved head, beard, tattooed, medium brown complexion with the dad bod for lack of a better term - mature beyond my years from life experiences, emotionally balanced, stable person overall. I'm born and raised in metro Vancouver, in Canada but my ethnic background is South Asian, (in case race is an issue, I'm not a stereotype but I understand preference matters) I'm unattached, living alone and busy with work and life in the 9-5 Mon to Fri vein but have remote, WFH in a niche industry and I like keeping my private life private

I enjoy rough sex, enjoy D/s dynamics with natural power exchange (not roleplay performative) and am dominant in bed with affection. I enjoy getting women off who enjoy the same kind of sex as me, I tend to click best with sub or servicing in bed women although not necessarily being submissive or passive in life. (The list of fetishes and kinks in my profile is not extensive, I've done a lot, I'm into a lot but not everything with everyone). I'm clean D&D free, into drinks & 420 as long as it's vape or edibles because I don't smoke and dislike the strong odour of weed, not into other drugs, calm collected and cool personality overall, and have a high sex drive and love a mix of things in bed when inspired by the right counterpart and we mesh. I do prefer having an exclusive consistent setup and meeting often

Quality not quantity is an underrated statement that I had realized a long time ago from experiences.  Posted here to connect to meet in real life... I feel a quick public meeting unveils potential or disinterest for more quite easily vs. long drawn out messaging... but let's swap SFW pics first

Wanting ongoing worthwhile FWB/FB, regular Play Partner or so on title. I like bit of a complex dynamic with a woman that is interested in compatible passionate rough play and mix of D/s, I like aspects of many kinks, so hard to pinpoint with a label of its own; it's more understanding established between the right mix of personalities. I like having a level of affection for whom I am playing with and of course I am balanced with kink; I have many likes and turn-ons in bed

I'm here in the search of a gratifying kinky fulfilling sexually charged connection byway of putting all cards on the table, Looking for a woman who sees a lot of overlaps in what I like and much of my perspective resonates with. Is on a similar wavelength. Ideally that someone also has a high libido and she enjoys a few hours of play at a time, going multi times, getting off together with passion for kinky sex