TL;DR: looking for 1-on-1 NSA fun with WOMEN ONLY. No men, no unicorn hunters, no “maybe eventually she’ll join me and my bf”. Please only message if you are a woman looking for 1-on-1 F4F, otherwise message will be deleted and blocked. Thank you.

Hi ladies, I’m a 44F looking for another F to explore with. I know I can’t be the only woman browsing Reddit R4R disappointed at the lack of F4F posts.

While I have always known I’m bi since my teens, my experience with women has been extremely limited (mostly just kissing and a threesome once in my 20s). I tend to be shy and introverted, and never knew how to approach women.

Now that I’m firmly in my mid 40s, I’d love to explore this side of myself more. My ideal situation would be another woman in late-30s or 40s, who is also inexperienced with women, and looking to explore together. But this isn’t required, happy to accept experienced women also, if you’re willing to be patient with a newbie.

I am currently in an ethically non-monogamous LTR with a man, and not looking to change that. But don’t worry, we are NOT unicorn hunting, I’m only looking for a woman myself for 1-on-1 only. It’s fine if you’re also in a relationship, but I’m not looking to be a unicorn for you and your partner, or for him to watch.

While I’m very shy, I’m very open sexually. Willing to be as vanilla or kinky as you’re comfortable with. Honestly, just as happy to be cuddling and kissing if that’s where your comfort level is at. Very consent-aware, very respectful of limits, will never pressure you.

I don’t do drugs, 420, smoke, or vape… and only occasionally have an alcoholic drink. I’d prefer someone similar. Not interested in someone needing to have a joint or a drink to ease nerves beforehand. We can both be nervous and awkward, that’s ok, I’d rather we be of clear mind.

My stats: 5’4” 125-130lbs, Caucasian, brown hair & eyes. Relatively skinny, but holding an extra 10 pounds through the midsection now that I’m on my 40s. Body type isn’t really important to me, it’s more about our connection.

We can just go for a coffee and chat, see if there’s a connection. No pressure, no expectations.

I put a verification pic, with date, in my profile. Would appreciate the same from you to weed out the fakes.