I'm 36, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head with a beard, a beefier use to workout dadbod currently, well groomed, big on hygiene, selfcare, mature man seeking good match.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in North Burnaby, Brentwood area by the Mall/Skytrain. I prefer later in the afternoons, evenings, nights/overnight, given that I'm kept busy Monday to Friday business hours so best if you have similar schedule, free nights/weekends with the ability and desire for spending few hours playing enjoying eachother

I enjoy D/s core dynamic in bed, I am internally Hedonistic which leads into some outward Sadistic play too, I mostly have Daddy energy overriding all of it and am Dominant in bed. Not to make my kinks the entirety of my identity, I do believe kinky sex, Dom/sub energy is a natural inclination, in modern time we just use labels to try define everything. I enjoy variances, in play as long as vibes sync. Kink roles, tags and labels aside, we do need to click first. Everything boils down to having mutual attraction with some sort of energy overall. I only enjoy kinky sex with someone who's genuinely internally driven/likes/needs it or it doesn't work

Generally speaking I don't think most of us are solely one way especially with kink. I enjoy both passionate & rougher sex, control with or no restraints, energetic-intense rhythm, ie. I'm very kinky but as long as vibes sync. I tend to click best with submissive/servicing in play naturally into power exchange, dynamics as I'm not into performative Dom/sub vibes leading into a theatrical scripted role playing type sex

Being hedonisticly driven I'm also into specific niche kinks not traditionally seen as being in D/s.. I've indulged in both ANR/ABF type play ie. wet-lactating and in lieu of it enjoy dry-breastplay too as it works with my kinks. I found both naturally as they occurred during rougher play without any mommy kink, nurturing or worshipping angles. I don't think it's as limited as ANR/ABF lifestylers think it is; for me ANR was always done during sex, never on its own. And in ABF, I didn't help induce since they were lactating, but I'm kinda curious so open to that; ABF was a surprise not by search

ANR; I want a match who enjoys the intimacy and pleasure from ANR/ABF/breastplay, that she gets from kissing, sex, oral, and sees it as another natural expression of intimacy. I'm not a passive suckler into just sensual nursing.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic breastplay, ANR & sex, it's fun in bed and a sexual thing to me, just natural sexual connection like rough sex and D/s power exchange and it goes beyond minimal breastplaying during foreplay alone

ABF; my more satisfying sexual experiences have been the milky busty FWB MILFs riding me, straddling me cowgirl, as I suckled from each back/forth, while pulling, gripping, grabbing, thrusted in, and alot more but the high energy milk suckling sex stands out, either because how long ago or since it was that good; wet ANR (ABF) is something I'd love to have again one day. I'm not into lying down being breastfed as it's not the same and I've enjoyed past ABF during more active energetic sex. It wasn't a mommy kink

I don't live in constraints of paradigms for what most think kink roles should be.. I'm just a Kinkster and like what I like

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a more intense varied spirited sex, from tender to rough play, multiple orgasms for both from reciprocated repeated oral and sex by playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions like more raw primally driven sex.. stuff like toys, restraints are nice but not always necessary because overall it's about physical and mental connection; physically I don't need restraints to take control and more importantly mentally a sub wants to enjoy herself and is submitting for fun play. I prefer to naturally build dynamics byway of truly honest play instead of scripting out, talking forever about kink. I'm not into online stuff, or 24/7 either

I prefer experienced women, open to amount of overlap in what we each like.. seeking a play partner I sync well with, a kinky friend with benefits to indulge myself.. I'm not here looking for dynamics outside of private bedroom play. I'm busy enough and want something worthwhile to add into life. Hoping to find a fun, compatible counterpart for this..