Hello everyone! What can I say? I love BDSM and am looking to find like minded people. I've tried the bdsmpersonals subreddit and I thiught try my luck here too. I'm a switch and I yo-yo back and forth between wanting to explore my sub side and wanting to find a sub.

I've been into kink in some ways before I even knew what sex was. It's an important part of my life and I don't think that I could be happy in a relationship without it. On the other hand I'm a hopeless romantic so I'm hoping that I can find someone that I can experience both with! Although that's a long term goal and I'm also happy meeting people and playing.

In terms of the kinky stuff, I'm most interested in bondage. I love the feeling of being helpless and at someone's whim. Having someone tie me up and torment me and praise me and essentially have their way with me while I'm helpless to do anything about it.

I am a switch however and I enjoy the exact same thing as a dom. The feeling of power and having someone helpless at my feet. I am a people pleaser at heart and so every hit with the flogger will be mirrored with a loving kiss. I also just want to explore with someone who wants to try new things and learn and grow.

For a specific kink list I'd say it's pretty standard. Bondage, corporal punishment, worship, teasing, sensory deprivation, etc. Also I love gags. I have a decent amount of experience so I know what I like but am always wanting to learn and grow.

On the non-kinky side I'm an adventurous nerd. I love history, video games, scuba diving, skiing. I tend to be very open and affectionate. I also have my own place so I'm able to host.

What I'm hoping to find is someone who enjoys kink and is willing to explore the wonderful world of BDSM and who is also interested in a relationship either monogamous or ENM. If you're only looking for a play partner that's ok too but my primary goal is a relationship.

If you've read this far then please shoot me a message. I'm happy to include face pics in a private chat. I'm 6ft1in, 180 lbs, mixed ethnicity.

Hope to hear from you soon!