I'm just single, not dating nor necessarily looking to at the moment unless the connection is right, and that happens to come about. I'm just not chasing anything, I have a busy enough life. I'm not after social dates/pseudo-relationship here but I definitely prefer some sort of connection too as hanging and banging typically means enjoying hanging as well.. Seeking someone I click with/have good chemistry.. Strongly prefer mutually exclusive setup and meeting often

I put all cards on the table in a sincere search here in reddit as I'm not disingenuous, finding/having/keeping is the goal

Me: 36, 6ft., Brown, attractive, clean/ddf, average dadbod, stubble to shaved-ish head and face, am childfree/ petfree, well groomed, big on hygiene, selfcare. Kinky, my energy is hedonistic, more daddy/dom, and little bit sadist too.. I'm a tattooed, professional with remote/wfh job in niche market who's very private about kinks/sexlife etc, and overall am a chill, levelheaded, mature, experienced, balanced individual that's not interested in games/fakeness/deception and am interested in a straightforward real woman who's a good fit that's not worried about emotions or feelings in something like this because she understands it adds to make it better;

I'm really into/interested in all nighter lustfilled passionate kinkier sex sessions with music, drinks and weed, playing repeatedly IF* we both vibe well socially based on meeting somewhere public to see IF* we're feeling it to venture into foreplay feeling eachother out back at my place, I can host & I live alone in Burnaby, near skytrain by Brentwood mall. I'm not here looking for one offs or quick hookups, I need a match that's as interested in establishing a worthwhile and quality situation as I am, with a high sex drive to match too so attached/cheater types won't work for me and everyone is busy but no one's so busy they don't have time to get off

I would like to make this an ongoing and very regular thing ofcourse. Single night stand random hookups don't appeal to me at my age, I prefer consistency and comfort with a lover, especially because I'm kinky so IF* things align and we're into many of the same things then well it just makes sense to want to keep it going.. Posting on Reddit isn't fun, swiping Tinder or Bumble isn't either and I'm not currently, no social media so there's no sliding into DMs for me to try plus my day to day work has me mostly dealing with men.. I'm limited in meeting women the typical ways so I'm here, being on here anonymously I'm being very upfront/honest;

Kinkwise, I enjoy both passionate and rougher sex, control with or no restraints, energetic/intense rhythms. I'm more daddy-dom and as long as vibes sync, I tend to click best with naturally submissive-servicing in bed/play.. but not a passive personality. More accurately I'm hedonistic dom leaning daddy type with some sadist edges and click with range of kinkier women dependent on play. I enjoy D/s in natural power exchanges and dynamics. Kink roles and labels aside, we should click as people first. Everything boils down to mutual attraction and some sort of energy overall, whether it's liking one another as people or just having a raw lustful sexual spark, it's there or it isn't. Rest is all uncovered in play and natural kink dynamic is better...

This isn't a Dom for sub type of performative interaction search, it's more kinky single for compatible kinky single for fun type search. Not making my kinks the entirety of my identity like some, I feel like kinky sex & D/s is a natural inclination, in modern time we use labels, define everything and some go too over the top, others from various reasons fully dive in.. If you agree, that's a good perspective to start and a healthy outlook.. I'm not seeking dynamics outside of play, it's fun in bed for me so either we vibe and explore or we don't. Start* with an introduction and let's swap SFW pics to see IF* we're meeting in real life to pursue further...

Only message me if you are seriously looking for the same and say more than Hi in your first message or I won't reply

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I have full bdsm ad up, so I'll clarify whats not for me, iykyk

Hard limits: all the unhygienic ones -blood, scat, urine, etc., included eating ass which is off putting giving or receiving; super regressive age, especially very 'little' Dd/lg, cg/l; abdl; extreme cnc, as in way too real.. None of these are for me.. for me at best, 'middle' is ok and 'cnc' if derived from bratty; I've never found regressed ageplay & non-consent play hot;

Turn-offs: calling rough sex 'cnc' because it's not; using the term 'breeding' and for thinking bare sex cumming inside a woman on birth control is a 'kink' because that is just sex.. and let's be honest is preferred when playing safe together, as I'd rather cum in than cum on since* I cum multi-times; thinking D/s is all about physical restraints given it's also a energy & mentality; feigning kinks because faking isn't fun;

Soft limits: not the biggest fan of being called Daddy in bed tbh, it's ok sometimes yet the word isn't the kink, energy for connection is what matters; over the top dirty talk since it's a bit theatrical, not as real; some cnc and cg/l or dd/lg etc, only 'middle', semi 'cnc' have different energies for play so non-issue, they both are ancillary to my kinks, not sought; some bratty stuff can get annoying, less is more maybe idk as with sadist play, full masochistics all in is not my thing.. the things in soft limits are nuances in play for me, all open

Kinkwise, my context based in depth post has all that I like