Let me introduce myself.  I have been happily married for many years, but unfortunately sex is no longer part of my life due to my spouse’s health complications and surgeries. The last few years have been difficult, and you cannot plan for these life-changing circumstances. Love and commitment to each other is still very much there, but as a person who values intimacy, I miss that physical connection. I am looking for a sensual and adventurous woman who might see herself as a discrete side chick or as an affair partner.

I’m self-employed and I fit a traditional male gender role. Yes, I can hang a shelving unit on the wall.  Communication, creativity and humour are my strengths. Personal grooming, hygiene and my appearance is important to me, and I would expect the same from you. Height and weight proportionate is a must. While I don’t have any preference for race, nationality or age, physical attraction and personality will be important. I’m told that I’m conventionally attractive (of course we all have our own individual preferences). 44 Caucasian 5’10” with blue eyes (no grey hair and not balding). People often tell me I look younger than I am. I’m a Vancouver local, business-casual guy. Non-smoker, occasional social drinker.

Maybe you want to feel that nervous excitement and butterflies from something thrilling and new. Maybe you’re looking for a secret boyfriend or an escape from the mundane.  If you’re also attached and/or have kids that’s some common ground for conversation. We can begin with chatting, and hopefully it will evolve to an in-person connection if the vibe is right. I am NOT looking to change my marital situation, and I don’t want to change yours either. Discretion and safety are key. I have flexibility in my M-F daytime schedule. Weekends and evenings more limited, but possible now and then. I have a confident demeanor, and I lean more towards a dominant role if things heat up; maybe that checks a box for you.

So, if this sounds like we might be a good fit or even if you’re just a little curious, reach out to me!  I would love to know what your own reasons are for replying to this post; perhaps I can be that missing piece of the puzzle for you.  Let’s have a little adventure together ;)