I like to imagine my future love as a dance—a delicate interplay between passion and romance, set to a symphony of desire. This is the kind of connection I seek, with a woman who understands the depth of romance that transcends the ordinary, blending the sweetness of soft moments with the heat of a more ardent lust. My heart is set on finding someone who craves not just companionship, but a profound and intimate bond; one that intertwines our lives in a way that is as exhilarating as it is meaningful.

Before we dive in, a bit about the superficial stuff: I’m tall (6’1”), caucasian, with dark features. I’m educated, with professional degrees. I’m fit and well built - I’d appreciate if you took care of your body as well, however you choose to. Please be my age or younger and located in/near Vancouver.

The idea of a life shared with a woman who is not only my lover but also my confidante and partner in adventure stirs something deep within me. Always has. Imagine mornings wrapped in the scent of coffee as we prepare for the day, evenings spent in the glow of each other’s embrace while our speakers blasting our favourite tunes. Picture the serenity of a Sunday spent wandering through forest trails, our conversations flowing as easily as the streams we pass, the world around us fading into the background as we focus solely on each other.

I ultimately want to build a life with someone in a relationship where we lift each other up. And part of that is embracing our true natures. Gender roles aside, I ultimately want to be with a woman who finds comfort in my strength, who flourishes in her femininity as I do in my masculinity. I am a gentle Dom—a man who finds joy in guiding, in leading with a firm but tender hand. I thrive on the mental and sensual connection that comes from knowing and understanding each other’s deepest desires, and fulfilling them in a way that feels as natural as breathing. There is something undeniably intoxicating about the power dynamics at play when trust and affection are the foundation, and it's in this space that I feel most alive.

On to the kink stuff:

My interests are rooted in providing pleasure, but also teasing, edging, and control. I love exhibitionism, and enjoy humiliation and degradation when it’s consistent with my sub knowing I do love them and think highly of them; I never aim to humiliate or degrade in a way that puts that in question. I don’t really enjoy sadistic play all that much, but will revert to it as a reinforcement tool, or as a more regimented protocol. The exception is spankings; I love giving those when you haven’t been a good girl. I’m looking for someone who is open to exploring the boundaries of both of our desires. I’m well equipped down there, but I also LOVE using toys on a sub. Bondage is a lot of fun too.

If this vision resonates with you, if you are a woman who seeks not just a lover, but a life partner who will stand by your side in all things, then the journey awaits. Say hi, tell me about yourself, and please respond with a pic and I’ll send one back (face pic, SFW no-face, it’s all good - but I tend to treat this like dating apps so I would like to know what the person I’m talking to looks like). See you soon :)