Looking to date a local single, DDF/non-smoker of any substances to build a monogamous relationship balanced with relational intimacy and kink exploration/roleplay.

Not into any kind of ENM.

About me: In the vanilla space, my hobbies range from webnovels and webtoons to climbing and enjoying the scenery, reading up on emotions and connecting with people. Weekends: at the park/getting fresh air, at a cafe, or cozying up to a book with tea. Travel: stay-cations with the occasional month-long annual vacation elsewhere. I strive for and appreciate a balance of curiosity, light-heartedness and thoughtfulness. My intention is to co-create emotional trust with someone I vibe with such that we can appreciate our differences as a team and work towards repair when relational ruptures happen.

East Asian, 5'4", single, physically slim. Switch with high physical affection needs/libido. Seeking someone similar who loves to give oral/sex-toy positive.

What I’m seeking (SFW):

Someone intending to co-create an intimate and connected relationship forged through each time we show up for potentially hard yet human conversations. Someone who I can mutually navigate conflict and repair with and be at ease. We practice tuning into when our stuff comes up during conflict with check-ins as appropriate.

Mutual emotional and non-sexual physical intimacy are fundamental to the relationship as is compatible kink energy. It’s important we feel comfortable with each other to foster trust and increased capacity for progressive vulnerability. Let's build an intimate, connected relationship that balances heart-to-heart conversations and playful, dirty-minded fun.

I prefer to get to know someone virtually first to rule out mutual dealbreakers and connect more on a SFW compatibility basis before anything else.

What I’m seeking (NSFW):

The kink-positive dynamics I'm seeking from both sides, include: seductive roleplay, light restraints/impact play, begging and orgasm control, outfits, soft power dynamic roleplay and more. Lazy Sundays cuddling and enjoying each other's company. We're both clear on what we want to try and can be comfortable expressing our limits in a judgement-free zone.

Please be between the ages of 26-40 and be slim to lean, and have a comment/post history. No throwaway accounts or anyone who already disrespects my boundaries stated here, including my non-negotiables.

Basic non-negotiable requireds:

• Also similar in terms of: local, single and childfree, DDF willing to be fully tested before any intimacy, non-smoker of any substances

• Shares compatible and clear intentions around a monogamous, long-term relationship

• Willingness to repair around relational ruptures/conflict. Understands that I am also learning and growing alongside them

• Wanting to explore compatible kinks within the values of safety, comfort and negotiation of calibration of touch

• Between the ages of 26-40

• Slim to lean body type

• Also gainfully employed as am I

• Able to make time to be intentionally present for quality in-person time together 2-3 times a week consistently with an interest in a good portion of it being kink exploration.

• Willing to initiate or participate in potentially uncomfortable conversations around either person's needs

• Comfortable navigating mutual consent and what they are into or need within emotional and physical intimacy, kinks and limits.

Other preferences: Clean-shaven or relatively short and tidy beard.

I respond to messages that reflect the vibe I'm looking for and provide the below in the first message:

1. Include your basics (age, ethnicity, physique, consent/kink interests, etc.) and references to my non-negotiables.

2. What energizes you in making a connection.

Looking forward to connecting with someone who writes a relevant introduction, provide a SFW face and full-body photo within a week of talking, and is ready for a virtual vibe-check!