On the surface I have a perfect life with a very successful career, beautiful wife, and kids. I'm a well respected member of my professional community and relatively well known in my field. The majority of people I know suspect nothing different than what's presented externally but there is definitely more underneath all of this...

My hidden side involves BDSM and its only known to my past or present submissives. As a practitioner of both psychological and physical domination I enjoy and I am well versed in many aspects of BDSM including but not limited to: rough sex, collaring, cuffing, slapping and whipping (no marks), roping, plugging, and toy play. My preferred level of physical roughness is best described as moderate and I normally start off slower with newer entrants to BDSM. I have the expertise, physical stature and equipment to pin you down, penetrate you roughly and deeply, and carry this on for multiple rounds with the help of inflicting some physical pain as fuel to the fire.

I am looking for women who are able to release themselves from choice and decision making during our time together. I realize that this is hard to do, but I will do my best to make you comfortable enough to get there because letting go is necessary for this to work.

My preferred type of submissive would be single or attached females with two points of note. First being that if you're a younger and sexually inexperienced female I would caution against seeking a dominant as you may become addicted to this lifestyle and it could affect your future relationships and sex life negatively. Secondly, if you're attached I strongly prefer not for this to be your first extramarital experience. Your location should be within Greater Vancouver for practicality and logistics of a longer term dominant-submissive arrangement.

Safety and OPSEC: Any activities should be considered strictly confidential and its important that you do not want to change your "normal life" outside of our potential arrangement - I am also in the same boat. Needless to say disease free is mandatory.