I am married, she does not know, it's not an open relationship, so if that's a problem, I can understand that and I apologize for wasting your time.

If you're still here, then, hi! I want to form an ongoing connection with someone that is either in the same place as I am or can understand and accept what is going on for me. I have been around the block a few times and am acutely aware of the effort, care, and attention this kind of thing warrants. I am ready, willing, and able to put myself into the right person.

I am in a dead bedroom relationship, have been for a very long time now. I am a dad, consider myself a Daddy/Sensual Dom, and have a dad-bod physique. I am tall, caucasian (if that matters), keep myself in check, and work from home with an abundance of free time during the day. I have the ability to host with the right person, can travel some, and am up for public/car play if we need to get creative. If this is to be an online only thing, we can discuss our favourite app and moving to said service when the time comes.

I have a variety of kinks I would be more than happy to discuss between us, but I can say that I am very open to a lot of things and non-judgmental. I'm the kind of Dominant that knows that being someone's Dom means more than just giving out orders. It's creating a need, a want, a desire to be lead, controlled, or instructed. That being said, I'm in no rush and am more than happy to take things as they come and figure out our connection as it builds.

Outside of the bedroom, I am kind of nerdy, though you wouldn't know it to look at me. Hobbies, likes and dislikes, we can discuss between the two of us. I am an open and honest person, more than happy to discuss anything you'd like to know about me. I'm a very caring person, matches the comfort-factor of my exterior and am missing intimacy in all forms.

Hoping to meet someone like-minded, chill, down-to-earth. Physically I tend to be more attracted to curvier bodies, BBW, SSBBW, chubby, curvy, however you want to label it. Mom-bods and up, I suppose. But that being said, I'm not limited in my appreciation so I am open to you, however you are.

In the end, what I'm trying to say is that I'm a normal guy looking for a normal girl. So often you see in these posts that you want someone "fit" or "attractive" or "hot", however you want to label it. I want a real person, someone that is perfectly imperfect. If you aren't getting what you want or need in your life, don't want to destroy your home but want to change things, or even just want to try something new, reach out.

Whether this is strictly an online connection or eventually we develop and want to see how things might work in person, I'm open to it all. I've made connections in the past, and I've been without one for far too long now. Looking forward to you changing that. Hope you're having a good one!