Turns out it’s Opposite Day, don’t worry 😉

I am looking for a long-term partner and a connection that will fulfil and sustain us both over what is hopefully many happy and satsfying years, allowing us to explore aspects of life that we cannot elsewhere. Let's develop a friendship, cultivate it, and have it blossom into a true, steamy partnership that will provide us with what we are missing!

About me: 5'6" tall, 150lbs, mostly black hair, Asian mix, tech professional, fit and lean and traveler, business and design degrees, enjoy trying new cafes and all types of music but especially, R&B and hip-hop.

A bit about us:

• We care about our families and do not want to change our respective situations. We remember that we are both real people with real feelings, with others who depend on us.

• We are confident, bold go-getters willing to take a chance, open to meeting when both are ready, to ensure there is mutual chemistry and attraction. We are slow and methodical but not flaky and know with confidence who we are and what we want. As this will be a beautiful, long-term relationship, we are OK to take our time and do it right in this and every other aspect.

• Reasonably able to make time for eachother virtually (online, text), with an understanding that we both have family obligations and fulfilling careers.

• We are on here for a reason - we long for a deep, meaningful connection with someone who appreciates us as we are and longs for us. Someone who craves us both mentally and physically, who recharges us and breathes in an intoxicating level of emotional excitement into our daily lives.

• We will not be one of many - we will be each other's "the one." Variety may be the spice of life when it comes to food but for a relationship between two people, I strongly believe the deeper and more meaningful bond, the more rewarding the experience.When I caress you and look into your eyes and tell you how utterly gorgeous you are to me, how rejuvenated you make me feel, how pleasurable it is to spend time in your company and be with you - you will know it is the truth, and one meant only for you.

• At this stage of life, we are well put together

If this appeals to you, I look forward to hearing from you!