Seeking a monogamous LTR with someone single, DDF/non-smoker of any substances who is also very into roleplay.

Please note that I am looking to date my partner in a committed relationship and my preference here is within the context of that. I am not into any kind of ENM.

In the vanilla space, my hobbies range from books to climbing and enjoying the scenery. Mostly nerdy with semi-homebody hobbies. I don't game anymore but someone who'd carry me through daily dungeon quests regularly is among the most romantic acts for me. I am someone who wants to lift my partner up and receive that affection in equal return. I want my partner who shares compatible ways of affection that fulfill each other and shows respect for each other's time. Compatibility is my priority, encompassing emotional, lifestyle, and values. I move slow when getting to know people.

I'm constantly looking to grow a connection with my partner towards a stronger understanding of each other and how we relate. Change in life is constant and I'm looking for someone with whom I can build a lasting bond built on mutual respect.

A LTR partner who is thoughtful, patient, and respects the Safe, Sane and Consensual protocol or a newer version of it as much as I do even if they've never done a scene. Someone I can connect with and someone who understands that safety and comfort is paramount. If you have an idealized version of what a partner should look like or act like or don't want to put effort into keeping a connection going, I am not the person for you. I take my time to get to know people virtually first to rule out mutual dealbreakers and connect more on a SFW compatibility basis before anything else.

The kink-positive dynamics I'd be looking at incorporating into, from both sides, include roleplay seduction, begging and orgasm control. I enjoy the idea of wearing outfits and soft power dynamic roleplay. I really enjoy cuddling as a form a physical intimacy and feeling the comfort of my partner's body against mine. Immediacy is a necessity with constant check-ins. We are both clear on what we want to try or what we enjoy and can be comfortable expressing our limits in a judgement-free zone.

About me: I'm East Asian, 5'4", physically average, high libido. Switch who is not into fixed BDSM looking for similar. My preferences lean towards someone who loves to give oral/sex-toy positive, shares similar values in and out of intimacy, and is open-minded and self-aware. Most importantly, someone who respects me as an equal and who I can mutually communicate with and be around comfortably. Trust and respect for each other are paramount.

Please be between the ages of 26-40 and be averagely slim/lean to fit, and have a comment/post history. No throwaway accounts or anyone who already disrespects my boundaries stated here, including my non-negotiables.

Basic non-negotiable requireds:

• Also local and childfree, DDF/non-smoker of any substances
• Active in a relationship and connection, not passively waiting to maintain ongoing communication
• Expresses what they like and don't like in the moment while open to exploring new ideas during sex and in life - aka immediacy in communication
• Between the ages of 26-40
• Willing to get tested for a full STI panel before any physical intimacy
• Similarly low body count under 5 preferred
• On the slim/lean side of average to fit body type
• Understands and respects discretion and confidentiality especially in early stages - no NSFW photos at all
• Also drives and gainfully employed as am I
• Able to make time for quality time together at least once a week consistently
• Into roleplay as much as I am, shows empathy and kink-positivity
• Willing to share their attachment style and how that shows up in a LTR
• Understands that consent can be withdrawn at any time by either party for any reason and must be informed at all times
• Practices personal responsibility, consideration for their partner's boundaries and self-awareness of how past experiences may inform how they emotionally relate within the context of a relationship

Only responding to those who show clear interest in getting to know each other on a SFW basis first:

1. some basic general details about yourself like what I've mentioned above for myself, including your age, relationship status, understanding of consent; and
2. what you're seeking as a roleplayer and your thoughtful reflection on what I've shared that matches the energy of my post.

I'd appreciate a SFW face and upper half body photo within two weeks of connecting regularly. The picture is to gauge baseline visual attraction but consideration and respect for me as an equal is the connection.