We're getting so many flakes and people who disappear after asking for pictures, or once they understand that we are actually real people. If you only like chasing things, don't respond.

You are:
1. Someone who will enjoy making out with her and can take it slow to start.
2. Someone who understands/respects boundaries and checks in before doing anything.
3. Someone who can take the lead (while still checking in).
4. Between ages 30 and 50.
5. Tall. Please be 6ft as she's almost 6ft tall. (non negotiable, please don't ask)
6. Someone who is relaxed and friendly and can make her feel at ease.
7. Not currently active with multiple partners. (That includes being married - we're not homewreckers)

I (husband) will be present, and I might talk to her or kiss her here and there, but there will be no sexual contact between the men, this is all about her. So please consider if you would be comfortable with an audience.

Not looking someone who feels they are "alpha" or a "bull". We're not looking for any sort of power play here. Also, no rough stuff, she's pretty vanilla.

She's 45, and I think she has an absolutely stunning body.

We're looking for a coffee meet before things happen. We may consider an online chat since people keep making plans and flaking on us. This could become an event we might repeat with you occasionally if you remained interested.

** To be completely open, she has hsv2. She is on preventative medication and has been asymptomatic for years.

If interested, please send a recent face and upper body picture (this is important as she wants to know if she knows you in real life and to see if she can have chemistry with you -- graphic picture not desired thank you), some information about yourself, and what you are looking for so we can then reciprocate.