Like most twists in life's journey, I found myself happily married, and together we have an amazing young son. I was completely devoted to my wife until fate threw a curveball my way. Unexpectedly, I crossed paths with another woman and experienced the thrill of an affair. It was like fireworks, but alas, she had to move away with her family due to her partner's career.

Now, I find myself gravitating to that special connection again—the kind that ignites my interests, sparks laughter, and occupies my thoughts throughout the day.

Just to be clear, I'm not on the hunt for casual flings or fleeting encounters. What I truly desire is a connection that goes beyond the surface. Perfection isn't necessary or expected. Life is wonderfully complex, and circumstances aren't always easily altered.

Guilt still nags at me from the affair, so I'm not seeking to change my current situation. Discretion and simplicity are my guiding principles. I prefer to keep things uncomplicated and drama-free.

So, if you're a woman who can bring laughter, shared interests, and a genuine connection into my life, let's embark on this journey together. While I may not be able to change my circumstances, I'm ready to explore the depths of our connection and create something beautiful, even if it's under the radar.

About me:

• 38 years old, Asian, and based in Vancouver (closer to Burnaby)
• Im an entrepreneur with a flexible work-from-home schedule, allowing me plenty of time to give you my attention.
• A big kid at heart, and attitude and approach to life that reflect that
• Enjoy staying fit, healthy, and active, and have been told I'm easy on the eyes
• You'll typically find me in the business or self help section of a bookstore
• Special talents include cooking (I may not be the best, but I enjoy experimenting but also keeping thing simple), have an artistic side (from dance to painting)
• I enjoy talking and texting throughout the day if you're up for it.
• Like you not looking to change our situations at home, but excited to catch genuine feelings
• Horror movies bring me smiles more than scares - grew up close with my mother who literally raised me on Exorcist to X-Files, and those were such great bonding times

Looking for:

• You, as you are, as you were, as I want you to be.
• Someone who makes me laugh and appreciates my dad jokes
• A sharp wit and cleverness are incredibly attractive to me.
• I'd love to hear about what's happening in your life and the things that bring you happiness.
• I want to have engaging conversations about our shared interests
• I'm genuinely looking forward to the prospect of catching feelings for one another and building a deep emotional connection.
• I believe in providing genuine support for each other and being there through life's ups and downs.
• Let's enjoy the chats, getting to know each other, and fostering a connection that goes beyond superficial interactions.

If you're intrigued, shoot me a chat, let me know your minor pet peeve. Is it the dirty dishes left in the sink? being in a one sided conversation? I'm curious to hear what grinds your gears!