So formal. Transactional, even!

Let me be a little more relational.

I have had a past wonderful affair (2021-2022) and am looking to start and build something with someone again. I know the right connection when it starts, and while looks, intelligence, etc. are all important, what I posted in the title is probably more so. One goes to availability (I do travel across USA and sometimes Canada frequently) and you being able to travel (from time to time)

I'd love for you to join me and meet me at the locations I make my way out to for work - even if it's just for a day or so of exploring and sitting and sipping coffee at a fancy coffee shop (I'm no coffee snob though). I understand that may not be ideal, but it's these kind of unexpecting adventures that adds so much color to the secret world we'd build together.

So ofcourse connection itself is paramount. That's actually the only thing that matters, as most of us know.

• I love art, tech, music, and reading. One of my favorite things to do with another person is to sit at a new cafe together and have simple chats about our interests - whether it be your current book, personal life, controversial opinions and topics - I simply love getting to know different perspectives

• I also lead a healthy lifestyle - I try to stay active and fit (I used to dance), but fighting the dad bod is definitely one of life's newer challenge that I want to get through

• I'm very goal oriented and challenge oriented, love solving problems, and it's what has probably lead me to becoming a successful business founder

• I have a son, who is in elementary school - love him dearly and enjoy reliving a lot of my nerdy childhood things with him

• I'm a Canadian born Asian, 38, 5'5", and have been described by others as someone with a great smile and handsome

To sum up, I met my last AP here on this sub. (Or it might have been on r/Adultery.) She DM'ed me, a most wonderful connection followed, and we had the most amazing four months together. I have absolutely no regrets.

I think the world of her.

But I'm not looking for another "her."

I'm looking for you.