Hey - I’ve lurked here for a while and finally decided to make a post tailored to what I’m looking for. I am a Dom and generally kinky guy looking for a sub who is open to something long term, because I'm looking to build a special life with a partner, and want kink to be a part of that.

I’m looking for someone who wants a partner in kink, but also a lasting romantic relationship. Someone who is confident they want to live a kinky life in the bedroom, yet wants to carry that dynamic outside of the bedroom too. I'd love to subtly teasing each other throughout the day, only to fully indulge when we're together behind closed doors. I have a strong masculine side I want to be able to express, while simultaneously being able to facilitate my woman’s greatest expression of her femininity. I want someone I can respect as an equal partner given their contributions to “us”. And despite my dominance, I’m really a hopeless romantic who has a lot of love to give. I love heartfelt passion, romantic gestures, deep long kisses. Plus it provides a great contrast to all the rough play it leads to!

A good kinky relationship requires a strong trust, bond, and compatibility between us. And while trust and love grow over time when things are a decent match, I’d like to make sure we have similar interests. That dusty crackle of a record on the turntable, while on the couch with a book in hand? A warm cup of coffee before a session at the gym? A Sunday walk through the trails? The rush of our favourite band hitting the stage? In a general sense, music, fitness, art, wellness, and the outdoors are all big for me. While I hope you are similarly aligned I’d love to hear about what makes you tick too.

Essentially, I'd love to explore our kinks together, living out our wildest and most depraved fantasies. But I'd also love to dress up and take you out for fancy dinner dates, travel to beautiful places together, or spend mornings cuddling in each other's arms. And ideally, build a life together :)

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And because attraction is important:

• I’m 29, from Vancouver. I’m 6’ tall, fit/muscular, Caucasian, and dark haired. Can grow a great beard but mostly stick to stubble lately.
• Looking for someone who stays fit/active as well.
• I’m educated (have multiple degrees) and work a professional finance job.
• Kinks include role-play, rough sex, dirty talk, choking, slapping, spanking, anal play, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, bondage/restraints, degradation/humiliation, exhibitionism, toys, and more.
• I have experience as a Dom and in kink, but am open to partners of any experience level.

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If this resonates with you, please tell me a little bit about yourself, what you look like (feel free to send a pic), and your interests. Please be 29 years old or younger. I've got some NSFW pics in my profile for reference. Hope to hear from you soon!