Men, if you don't want DMs from other men, start saying "women" instead of "people", or better yet, start using normal hookup structure ("40M4F", "20M for older woman") - if you say you're looking for "someone" or "a person", you're gonna get attention from other men because you're telling every man that reads your post that you're open to male attention. Yes, gay and bisexual men exist and if you aren't into us, you should be making that clear in your post.
"20M for older woman into yourFetishHere" is, in general, a way better title - it clearly states who you are and what you're looking for, and helps you and your desired partners find each other rather than just screaming into the void and being surprised when you're getting messages from everyone but the people that you're into.
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