Hello!

I am looking for fun weirdos. What do I mean by a "fun weirdo"? I mean you follow the beat of your own drum. You feel like an outsider around most people. You don't like having to be an adult all the time.

I don't mean that you are pervy. You can be but that isn't my main focus. I truly care that you know who you are and love yourself because of that. You are honest and vulnerable for the right person that you feel safe with. You can cast judgement aside and see that we are all animals following the programing of our primal selves.

Specifically, what am I looking for?

I need someone who is creative. You have some art form that you use to express yourself. Also, you consistently practice that art form.

Having a community of people that support you. It doesn't have to be a masses group. It could be 5 friends that you talk to regularly. You just need people in your corner.

You have to be OK with me having a busy schedule. I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish and hobbies that require me to be around people. I do have a one or two days a week I can find to hangout with just you and me. However, if you have the same hobbies as me then we can spend more time together.

Don't be ignorant. If you don't think everyone is equal then we won't be able to form a close relationship. We are all here for the first time and are trying to figure it out. Even if you don't agree with what they believe. Shitty people are trying and I would rather try to help them not be shitty than insult them. I'm always open to chat about that if you don't get what I mean.

You have a growth mindset. Constantly growing and improving your life to be a better you. Forming new ideas and changing the things that are slowing you down. While also finding the moments of rest to allow yourself to recover.

As for the physical self, I just want you to take care of your body. Generally eat healthy, have some form of movement that you prefer, shower once a day, and any self care routine to keep yourself looking nice. I prefer people that are not at the extremes. Not extremely skinny and not extremely overweight. Again, it is more that I see that you take care of the one body that you have. I'm here for a long time and I want you to be to.

Myself. I'm 35 black man, 5'10", 223lbs. Broad shoulders, muscular arms and legs but got some love handles. I workout 2-3 times a week. It used to be more consistent when I was doing strongman comps but I had an injury. I have been getting back into the routine again but I don't really like competing. Working out has always been more for my mental health than anything else.

I am really in my imagination all the time. All of my jobs work around teaching acting or film. I love performing but I don't want to be famous. It is more for fun and to accomplish my goals. Which is to help others find their creativity. I co-founnded a nonprofit in Vancouver to spread tabletop gaming(if you are in the community I'm sure I just gave myself away). I also love improv as well and I am actively in that community.

I'm the person that will try anything and everything to achieve what I want. Which is why I am on here trying to cast a wide net. Dating sites are always hit and miss. There are a lot of nice people on them but are never weird enough. I'm sure someone willing to take a risk and message someone on Reddit are more my style.

If you are reading this and that sounds like you then send me a message. I will be waiting patiently.

P.S. If you figured out who I am and you are interested. Then start flirting with me. You don't even have to let me know you found me on here. Be weird about it :p