I had a great opportunity last night. Took a bath in the garden tub with my wife. I had to pee when I got in, but held it, hoping she might be interested. Well, we flirted and chatted for awhile, and she was. I couldn't go for the life of me, and I wasn't even fully hard.

Does practice help? Is there something you think about, or avoid thinking about? Is this just my genetics? If somebody could unlock that trick for me, I would be ever so grateful.

EDIT: I just googled it and found some advice by urologists. Only one made an oblique reference to golden showers, but hopefully the advice will extrapolate. I won’t get into explanations on an anatomical level, but the common suggestions, omitting “quit being hard”:

1. Different positions may help. Bending over, or sitting on the toilet, might get you started. Once started, you could return to the position you and your partner desired.
2. Actually put pressure on the bladder itself by pushing on the abdomen above the pubic bone may help.
3. The “running water” trick may help.
4. Trying harder is counter productive.
   

I’ll try and report back. My partner wants to be peed in, and that sounds amazing.