I'm beginning to realize life is short and the time to try something you're interested in is never soon enough. I've been wrestling with my feelings for the same sex for years and can finally say I am a bisexual and ready to have sex with guys. That's not to say I'll jump in the sack with anyone right away. Some getting to know each other and having some kind of connection needs to happen before anything else. I'm open sexually but sex is something still very personal to me and I want that closeness on more than one level. That said I'm looking for more of a shared experience than something quick.
There are two different kinds of guys I'm interested in. But if you don't fit neatly into any of these but still feel a vibe with me feel free to reach out to me. Sometimes two people don't fit too well on paper but in reality when they're together it's fire! Of course the opposite is true too.
The first kind is the cuddly, compassionate Daddy type. I think such a guy would be a good choice for someone like me who is looking for his first time. I'm still shaky on my feelings but can't deny I crave gay sex. This kind of person would understand that and gently introduce me to homosexual pleasures and convince me they are very good!
The other kind is the young adult. Maybe I want to live vicariously through a younger guy to appease my inaction, confusion and guilt at that age. But I find the thought of being with a young guy pretty hot. Maybe you're a college student who's away from most everything you're familiar with for the first time. You have been exposed to new ways of thinking from several people around the state, country, world. Among those people are those who have been able to be true to themselves and/or are willing to push the envelope sexually. This has triggered thoughts you didn't dare imagine thinking before. Maybe an older guy in kind of the same boat is someone you can jive with.
As I said I invite anyone to respond even if they're not the type of people I mention. I'm open to group situations. I'm also open to hear from the ladies. I don't expect any to be interested but you never know!
I'm open to FWB if it goes in that direction. Probably shouldn't expect any romantic relationship especially with guys.