40[M4F] #NY - can we all agree on the rules for this game!?

40[M4F] #NY - can we agree on the rules for this game!?

I am a handsome married business professional from the suburbs of Rochester Ny. I never know what to add in these post to grab attention other than being myself. Love or hate it I guess haha. I love when my phone vibrates and I see a new message from someone. Who doesn’t want the attention and to be desired?

We are all here for the same thing. Hiding from the boring marriage and needing that spark to smile during the day. Wanting to see what the other person messaged you in the morning. Someone I can ask the most random questions and never be judged. Some women I meet want just sex and others need the emotional attention to get to the next step. I understand but let’s set the rules upfront so there are no surprises or make anyone feel uncomfortable.

I am looking for a local FWB that is strong minded, attractive and doesn’t play games. Someone who won’t get offended if I make a joke. Someone who can be serious, silly and sexual. If I’m being picky, I apologize but I do believe it’s ok to have a type. I need a woman who takes care of her body. Someone who is active, not a gym rat but weighs no more than me.

I am 5’8, 170 lbs, athletic build but no dad bod. I am 100% all natural - no tattoos no piercings. Sometimes a light beard and sometimes I look like im 25 when I shave hahaha. I do have some grey hairs coming but not a lot.

I can chat day and night but why is it so hard to find someone who can carry a conversation? I feel like I do all the work and it gets boring really fast. If you can hang, and are looking for fun outside the daily grind of being a mom, mother, busy at work…. Come say hi and let’s have fun.

I have done this a few times and had great success. I understand nothing last forever and the hardest part is getting the fire started. Once we meet and hit it off, things move fast.

Let’s set the ground rules and boundaries of what each person is looking for so there are no games and we can enjoy the time together.

I’d like to meet IRL, sex to coffee dates.

I appreciate you taking the time to read this post. Have your self a great day!