I'm drug and disease free, vasectomy safe, and in a long distance ENM relationship. She hasn't played solo in over 3 years due to life being too much to deal with and not having the time to pursue. For me it's been a year. We are both picky, we like what we like and don't string people along. I met someone here and it seemed to go well until they realized they want something more exclusive (her and I didn't sleep together, just got to know each other a bit to see where it would go). I'm considered attractive. I'm in good shape, GF is 15 years younger and typically "date" younger. With that being said I also have zero patience for immaturity and inability to communicate.

This is about me. She's open to play when she's visiting if you are bi or bicurious but it's not something she has to be a part of. We had this discussion around meeting the woman mentioned above. I'm willing to exchange pics that are G rated and nothing more before meeting in person. If you are too anxious to meet in a public place then don't respond. Life is too short and you should work through that in therapy, not on my time.

I'm looking for a woman 18-36, thin or petite frame with a healthy sexual appetite that is also interested in spending some leisure time together. I'm 420 friendly and drink socially meaning a drink or two. I'm not about getting blitzed. I also do not mind if you do have anxiety because I do and so does my GF but we push through it. I won't make you go out to be in a crowded area or tension filled social situation but I will require we meet for a drink or coffee in hopes we hit it off and go from there. This really shouldn't be this difficult. We are an attractive couple, extremely personable, funny, intelligent and only ask for the bare minimum from people and that's showing up and communicating when we agree to get together. I'm open to whatever relationship status you are in. That's your business. I work weeknights overnight so basically weekdays or weekends are best. A good portion of the year I can leave work early on a Friday night between 10:30pm and midnight but that's probably only going to be the case for a few more weeks until January. DM me if interested.