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Ok so here is my situation. I am in a relationship and I like it, enjoy it, and don't want to lose it. But I have this strong desire to find a discreet female friend. I feel like I am missing something and I know that something, is a selfish part of me. But at the same time, life is short so I'd thought I would see if I could find a woman interested in being a discreet FWB. And I'm not just talking about a physical relationship I do want a friendship and connection on some level.
So that's what I am looking for. I know it's not for everyone and I know it triggers some people. I also know the risk I am taking. So please be kind.
So here is the point of this post. I have seen both very respectful r4r posts from guys looking for this where they describe who they are and what they are looking for in the person they are searching for. Then I've seen some very outgoing and graphic post talking about the specific things they want to do to a woman. Some very graphic descriptions of sexual acts.
My first thought is, no way they are getting any response from that post! But maybe I'm wrong. Do they get more responses and success with graphic descriptions of what they want to do or be done to them? Or are the respectful post getting more response?
I am starting to wonder because I always post something respectful and very rarely get a response and the post gets over 1k views. But maybe I'm doing wrong.
Looking for an affair is something both men and women do. I know it's somewhat common.
I guess I would like thoughts and opinions from any of you.
Thanks and good luck finding what you are looking for.
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