30 (M4F) Syracuse/Rochester/Ithaca poly looking for fwb and/or friend

Hey folks! I’m Joe, 30M. I’m from Waterloo, so can easily reach the Syracuse, Rochester, and Ithaca areas, and am willing to travel farther, but would rather host since I own my own house. I’m looking for any amount of connection honestly. I’m a poly and currently partnered and I love her very much. But we both understand that love is to be shared with any that want to. She’s doing her thing and I’m doing mine. We are willing to do things together but we do not have to. A fwb or friend would be nice.

A little about me: I’m a big nerd. I play video games, DnD (or adjacent), a plethora of board games, and the like. I do try to stay active though. I have a dog, Max who is the goodest of bois. I own my own house with a nice half acre plot of land. My partner is very similar to me as well. At some point, I’ll have two more dogs, but that’s next years problem. I’m very relaxed, go with the flow, type of person but can be domineering in bed, if that’s the thing we agree upon. I’m a big 420 enthusiast, but I can’t smoke or vape cuz that makes me sick. 🤔 I’m gender queer, my partner a little less so. I’m very LGBTQ friendly and encourage those in the community to reach out!

What I’m looking for: someone who is similar to me in temperament and also enjoys imbibing the 420 goodness. In bed, I’m looking for someone more submissive but someone who’s playful would also be neat. My partner is my sub in bed. I’m open to most kinks, although hard nos are food play and body fluids of any variety. Feel free to reach out for specifics!

Frankly, sex doesn’t need to be on the table. If you want to be friends or gaming buddies that works too! I have a group of male friends that I game with, and while I love my friends, they can be toxic, which can be exhausting to corral and teach them what they did wrong without them being upset. So I’m mostly looking for female or queer friends, people who get it. My dnd (adjacent) group is much more queer but we don’t have similar gaming tastes and schedules generally conflict.

Thanks for reading! Feel free to DM me if you’re interested or have questions!