First and foremost, I'm single, and I except you to be as well. I have no desire to enter any type of friend/relationship with a guy who has a girlfriend or is married. What I am looking for is someone to vibe with. I'm not immediately looking to jump into bed with someone, but not entirely closed off to a FWB situation, either. I don't have kids, and can't biologically have them. I'm not turned off by the idea of a guy having kids though. But, I don't have time for baby mama drama. I also don't really have the energy for games in general.
I'm 5'8, short dark brown hair, brown eyes. I'm unabashedly nerdy, which seems to be a turn off for a lot of guys, but it's who I am. I read a lot, play video games (PC mostly these days), and have gotten into DND over the last couple of years. Most of my tattoos are also fandom related (10 and counting). I have a full time job, and am a professional photographer turned hobbyist. I love listening to music (with the exception of a few genres) and have been to more concerts then I can remember.
To be transparent, I live at home with my best friend to help take care of my partially disabled mother, so hosting isn't always an option. I have my own car so traveling isn't out of the question, but I'd prefer to stay as local as possible due to work and other responsibilities. I do have pets so if you have allergies, um... sorry.
I have some kinks, and things I'd like to explore some more. I'm more of a domme than a switch. I can be a pretty gentle domme, or degrading (to a point). I like guys who listen over ones who think they know what I like. I also like using toys, and have my own little growing collection of them. I'll also use yours on you, if that's what you're into.
If you want to chat more, DMs are open.
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