Hey, I'm a single 51 year old bisexual guy in the Buffalo area who is open to meeting college guys of legal age for friendship and sexual relationship. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything and am willing to take things slowly, but also realize sometimes the pieces fit together from the beginning. In other words, there are no rigid agenda and each situation should be allowed to play out according to its unique nature, but with consideration and responsibility (but don't forget fun).

Maybe this is your first time living away from home. Now that you've been away and on your own for a few weeks or so, maybe you're starting to dare to question your sexuality. Maybe guys have been on your mind for awhile. Maybe you know darn well you like guys.

Either way, something drew you to my post and you're still reading. Thank you!

Let's chat. Let's consider meeting. No pressure though. I know what pressure is like. I hate that. I'm cool if you want to keep it at chat, and can accommodate overnight if it gets to that point.

The thing is I am completely inexperienced with guys. Consequently, if you'd prefer to chat with or meet someone with that experience, I won't be offended. But if you're open to finding someone to learn together with, and you happen to be drawn to older guys as I'm drawn to younger guys, maybe this could work.

I want to emphasize I'm not looking just for sex, although I guess I'll take what I can get lol. I'm also looking for friendship: not necessarily to take advantage of a constitutional right before the Supreme Court of the US reneges on it but to have a connection. After all, that is what good sex establishes. So a witty observation or an encyclopedic fact will probably get my attention faster than a dick pic.

But again, no pressure. If you like my vibe but want us to keep our pants on, we can keep it platonic. It took years to process and deal with my attraction to the same sex. I've gotten much help over the years for which I am eternally grateful, and I feel compelled to lend an ear (nothing else lol) to anyone who is struggling with similar feelings.