Sure it’s a bitter pill to swallow but if you get ghosted you aren’t ready for the truth or I’m not ready to tell you the truth about me. And if you are in the situation of being ghosted your emotional fall out should be your lesson. Maybe don’t get emotionally involved with someone you don’t know. Keep things light with people until you’ve known each other for awhile. Wanting quick easy emotional intimacy is like wanting quick easy physical intimacy.
Edit: Wow this is beyond unpopular, sorry to trigger you guys/gals. My point is that it’s not an act of fear at all. For people who are upset, just learn you aren’t for everyone. If you truly don’t want to be ghosted send a message: I promise I will not respond to you, I truly want to learn about myself. Why don’t you want to be with me? And honor your statement. Even then, that person might have completely misunderstood you. But you can’t say anything.
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