I have seen people post about not wanting to be with a virgin and not wanting to "train" someone in sex, but I disagree. I think being someone's first is super romantic first of fall. Also, it gives you the chance to make them feel very happy, loved, and supportive.

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Also, it is fun to do things for the first time with someone. This is not just sex. The first time to go on a roller coaster. The first time to visit a place or go on a hike. I have taken people to see pretty places and to have them experience it for the first time, it brings me joy and reminds me of why something is so beautiful.

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I feel the same way about sex. Yes, it can be awkward. But you also get to be with that person as she has sex the first time, orgasms for the first time. I also like training people. You can have a kind and supportive environment where you discover things together.

I don't condone crude or creepy behavior, but being someone's first is amazing!