I feel the need to make a point or two regarding my relationship with sex. I do my best to be responsible, to make sure everyone involved feels safe enough to set aside their stress and anxiety and can enjoy their experience. I'm tested every three months, both to be sure of my status and to narrow down the time window in case there's a need to contact anyone. I don't participate in anything anonymous because the risk to benefit ratio is so poor. I've cultivated my skills and circles of friends over many years. I'm confident in my skill and ability to keep myself safe. When someone is able to let go, they're able to communicate freely and fulfill desires they might otherwise repress. Have sex. Have a blast. But take reasonable precautions and stay in contact with the few people who care about the whole experience. Buddies of either sex and everywhere in between who trust each other have the best lives.