Think of this like fight club rules. With a slight twist.

If you don't know fight club rules they are as follows "Rule 1, we don't talk about fight club Rule 2, WE DONT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB" Rule 3, WE DO-NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB Rule 4, no shirt, no shoes no belt Rule 5, one fighter to a fight one fight at a time Rule 6, no shirt, no shoes, no belts Rule 7, if it's your first time at fight club... you have to fight.

Rule 1. If we are to talk about this, meaning this profile, any associated profiles, links, kinks, all of it. It is 1 on 1 in an envolironemnt that mitigates any opportunity for unwanted listeners. E.E. "fight club Rule 1 we do not talk about fight club"

Rule 2. If we are in public, we do not discuss any of this part of my life and or lifestyle unless you are currently my significant other, or filling in that role for play related purposes. And done so discreetly. For example if one of us is wearing a chastity device in public and it needs adjusted. Grocery trips with remote vibrators, all orgasms must be properly disguised or held until we are back to the vehicle. No excuses, no messes. E.E. fight club Rule number 2, we don't talk about fight club.

Rule 3. As per Rule 2, "no excuses, no messes." This means no drama. This particular component in my life is compartmentalized for a reason. It has blown up on me before and I can't have that. Odds are, it's not in your best interest either. I reserve the right to derail the conversation if I feel like this part of me is compromised, feel uneasy, or we hit a hard limit. I may even go full ghost mode if i feel it nessisary. E.E. fight club Rule number 3 we don't talk about fight club

Rule 4, discretion is the intent. So, much like the fight club rule, this is the clothing section. , lets face it, i am the male equivelent to a nasic bitch. I like tight jeans, yoga pants, tight shorts, anything that shows off your figure. This is only a preference, wear what you want. It's only fair as I do the same. This is my kinky side. It doesn't bleed into my professional life. Nor does it my personal life. That is a statement. Chastity devices, toys, and torture devices if compatible with every day wear, are welcome but shold be discreet and or hidden. if teasing is to occur, at least do it right, cameltoes are one of my fetishes, but please be modest if we are in public. Also there are people who already know, there are people whom it would be fun if they did know, and there are people whom must not know. For reasons I am unwilling to explain. This is a hard limit for me. My life will not be ruined because a follower got out of hand. If you do not understand, please review Rule 3.

Rule 5. Monogamy/polygamy and my tastes. Not really a Rule, so much as an about me kind of thing. I believe within the lgbtq arena, I happen to be called a sis het male. I believe that this means that I am a standard issue heterosexual male. I do not know what the sis part means, as I do not partake in the lgbtq community even though I'm an ally, I just don't know all of the terminology, so I am apologizing now for anyone I may mis gender in the future. However when I am posting a m4f I do mean biological. If you are trans, cool, I'm talking in terms of hardware. If you have a dick I'm not interested. However if you are female, and you are OK with sharing another female, or do some kind of lion pride type of thing where there are more females than males, (ideally just me) kind of thing I am very interested. However, my standard tends to be monogamy. I've even tried to cheat before and couldn't go through with it because I know how bad it's hurt me before. So don't expect it to be me that breaks the monogamy.

Rule 6 My tastes. women. As mentioned in Rule 3, it's not really my place to judge or put my hands on my hips and command you to wear something specific unless you explicitly want me to be dominant toward you. If you do ill explain that later. But I do have preferences. I like tight fitting things. And shiny things. And asthetic things. Dress the way you want. Just please lead a healthy lifestyle. My primary means of transportation most of the year is a motorcycle. I have extra gear for when I want to take someone new for a ride. It's the equivalent of modern day armor in many respects. Due to the nature of riding a motorcycle things like basic physics are something I must account for. If you are significantly larger than me I must respectfully decline as a matter of safety. I don't mean to hurt any feelings by calling anyone too fat or too tall. You're beautiful the way you are, but I have to account for thing like leverage when turning and mass when accelerating and decelerating, especially for introductory passengers who may not have learned to be a safe passenger. and I have several sizes of leather jacket and helmet to conveniently sized accommodate women who fit within a range of body types that I also happen to admire. This is a courtesy to many and somehow an insult to some. I'm not trying to be a dick. I guess now would be a time for a lingere clause. Sorry for skipping around, but as for clothing tastes. Again, your asthetic is you, but I like tight things like leggings and leather. Leather and jeans make for decent enough riding gear. I don't mind skirts and sundresses are amazing. Just be smart with your clothing. If you do want me to be dominant However, I suggest investing in cheap lingere, as it may get torn off. Leather and venal may be ripped or otherwise damaged during play, so be prepared for that if it happens.

Rule 7 consent works both ways. I like to have more than one safe word. The obvious one. for hard limit back to reality, the play is over, emergencies, mental health breaks, aftercare etc. Then a word for like soft limits and the hey, ease up kind of thing. One word that's basically, yes, I'm OK, I may be screaming no, but you actually still have my consent. And the one that very few people ever talk about. The "hey, I actually want you to be dominant with me right now for whatever reason. This one is because I am somewhat forgetful and swing from dominant to submissive to oblivious on a whim. I may forget that you might do things specifically because you want the dominant side. Or are turned on and giving me consent or for that matter asking me for consent if you are such. Think if it as the green flag it's game time safe word. That said safe words, and proper after care procedures need to be discussed on a case by case basis and agreed upon so that we both (or all) know them. I know I didn't discuss after play much bit it's just as important. Some people want a blanket and cup of water, some a shower and fresh clothes, and some, some time to mentally recuperate and due to past traumas don't want to be touched or cuddled. Whereas some people consider cuddles and affection critical to after care. So again, if you're interested in me please discuss it.

And the last rule on this list. Once again, I don't like drama. And communication is important. But I have a fairly detailed martial arts background. I am also a southerner, I do not hit women. But, some of what I'm into is particularly rough. And rough housing is likely to occur. No hospital visits. I may actually want to indulge my breeding kink one day. But invest in cheap lingere and if you do want me to be dominant, understand, I am fairly strong. So be clear with what it is you want. I'm happy to be a pleasure dom. If you want pinned, held down and forced to orgasm so hard you forget what color the sky sounds like. A hip toss may be in your future. Also, please no dead fish and ragdolls. Us men have almost cliché jrpg weaknesses between out legs. Hence the need for the 'I'm actually good keep going' safeword. With the communication side of things. I've been used before to intimidate people. It makes me deeply uncomfortable. I don't like being a violent person I just happen to be skilled at it. If you need someone to help you with an ex or a creep, the least you could do is be honest. Much like hospital time, jail time is a hard limit. I have a clean record, let's keep it that way. But if you need a chivalrous redneck who is happy to take care of his beautiful woman or the savage protector type. I can be convinced to be either. Just be honest about what you are asking for. As I don't want to get into a fight just because you think it's hot. Unless it's consensual on all parties. Or is in fact the best solution to the problem which it seldom is.

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