We can share names once we talk a bit, along with pictures. I don’t want to post anything publicly here of myself.

I am a bigger body, but I am on a health and wellness journey and I’m on my way (slowly but surely) to a healthier weight. I have a number of physical issues, as well as mental health issues, that make it harder to lose weight, so there’s a good chance I’ll be on this journey for a few years before I have the physical form I want, if at all. If that’s not something for you, that’s okay! I know I’m not rated e for everyone right now.

On the topic of mental health, I do suffer from major depression and anxiety, as well as PTSD and CPTSD from past relationships. Sometimes I find it hard to open up and trust people, especially when they’re new in my life. Please be patient with me, and please communicate.

I have a full time job, and my time off is sacred to me. I’m 100% a homebody and a stoner, but every once in a while I like going out and having fun, or having an excuse to get dressed up. I attend BBW events every so often, and I love a good dinner date with friends or loved ones. My social battery isn’t very good, so I don’t enjoy being social for extended periods of time very often.

I have two cats, and that’s non-negotiable. If you don’t like animals I’m not the one for you.

I like art and music, lately I’ve been painting a lot and making little pen pal collages and cards for my friends and family. I know that’s a little childish but I’ve been having a lot of fun with it. I also love to sing, though I do have massive stage fright. I like to think I’m halfway decent.

I’m bad at smalltalk, and I have a tendency to get into deep conversation perhaps a bit too quickly.

I’m both dyslexic and numerlexic.

I’m the type to do everything all the way or not at all, especially if it’s something I’m interested in or care about. If I’m going to do something, I’m going to do it right and I’m going to do it well.

What my toy box lacks in numbers it makes up for in ability. (: