Hi everyone, hope you're doing well. I'm a typical dad, stay at home/work from home, bored and lonesome.

5' 9" 215 dad bod. My username picture is somewhat close to what I look like.

Need consistent stress relief, looking for weekly or more often if schedules align. Weekday daytime only between 8am-2pm. Possibly evenings and weekends, but cannot host at those times.

Typical married life, misaligned sex drives, just trying to keep sane. Family life is stressful, and I need to take care of my own needs. Not looking to upend my life. Keeping std safe is very important to me. I drink socially, I do not smoke or vape anything.

For partners, I do prefer feminine presentation. I’m a pretty sensory oriented person-has to attract in sight, sound, smell, etc. Sure, I can generally get erect but may have a hard time to cum if I feel that they or I aren’t into it fully. It’s just how my brain works.

As for friends, most of my friends in the area are busy with their own lives, or do not have kids themselves, and so I've been left out to dry, so to speak. Making new friends as an adult is a shit show.

At first I prefer to meet somewhere neutral/public or a platonic activity. If travel I prefer local (~15 mi). My general areas of travel are St. Charles, Chesterfield, Des Peres, Florissant. Can host if comfortable with you in the future. I do not do car meetups. Possibly open to mutual HJ in the future, oral swap doubtful. To reiterate, I prefer women for sexual activity but let's face it, it's Reddit/the internet at large so 99% of this post's readers will be men.

As for platonic activities I like being outdoors in nice weather, bike riding (need to repair mine but it’s an option), swimming, going to/walking my dog at parks, cheap Tuesday movies, trying new lunch places, some board or pc games. Gaming I haven’t been that up to date on, my kid is exhausting and there hasn’t been the money or mental capacity to keep up much. I also need motivation to go to the gym more often. I’m open to learn about your interests or hobbies. What do you like to do for fun?

If this happens to catch the attention of any couples, I’m open as well, and would be happy to chat about swapping/offering services from my end. I've had some conversations with people into sissy/femme/cd/ftm/trans, and it has gotten me curious. Have yet to meet anyone of those perspectives in the flesh, but would be welcome if you're looking for someone to get to know who may be open to the experience.

Please use sentences and punctuation. I do not want dick pictures. I do not care about your dick. Cavemen replies, vulgarity, overt aggression about wanting to suck my dick (you know who you are) and sending 2 words and ghosting will result in blocking. Please do not waste my time. If I have not gotten back to you from a previous post, I’m sorry but you were not what I’m looking for at this time.

Thanks, hope to hear from you soon.