In a nutshell we're fun, hot, secure, smart, emotionally mature, with a bunch of other hobbies and interests and want the same in others! Sex is fun but we've had our fill of shallow encounters, it's the dessert not the whole meal.

Likes: - interesting people and good conversation (chemistry is critical) - fit, active people who don't make it their whole life - grabbing drinks / hanging out first in person - secure people with no jealousy or drama that love watching each other play as much as they love playing - playing together in the same room - confident initiators (especially for her) who aren't pushy about it - everyone having a good time - seeing people turned on by each other - outdoor activities of all kinds - getting a good tasteful pic of both people with first chat - ongoing connections - compliments - taking private pics and videos

Seeking experiences: - couples for same room swap - group play parties and exhibitionism - bi women for her - anal play for him (she's not really into it) - her with another man (unlikely to be a solo man and def not a random from Reddit) - finding a social circle for regular experiences and spicy getaways (swingers resort anyone?) - someone to take videos and pics of us (along with yourself if you're into it!)

Dislikes: - random / one time hookups - separate play - dick pic openers (this can't have a high success rate, and if you've seen our pics you're not going to overly impress her) - close up dick/pussy pics in general really, we like the people attached to them - extended texting if we're not going to meet - chats that are only about sex / sharing pics - rough play / pain - sharing faces unless meeting is a possibility (don't worry they match our bodies) - couples with an obvious power imbalance - blank profiles and boring openers - one dimensional / pushy / selfish people - hey single dudes, comments are welcome but if you're DMing to meet up it's obvious you haven't processed the last section, so maybe reconsider